We are Mixology at the Manor — a private social club for swingers of every race and experience level, running intimate events for seventeen years and counting. We focus on sensual, erotic, and discreet gatherings (our S.I.D.E., for short) instead of the big parties and clubs full of gawkers, cliques, drama, and very little intimacy.
Our events cater to full swap couples, soft swap couples, and single females — capped around 15 to 20 couples and 20 single females so it stays intimate, not a crowd. No one is required to have sex, and we don’t “parade” when it’s time to play. Our icebreakers build a comfortable, sensual environment that encourages full swap play with no strings attached, ever.
We invite a small group of pre-screened couples, single females, and vetted single men (ages 25–45). Every guest is personally screened before they’re invited — the same careful vetting that’s kept our events incident-free for years. Because these are women-focused events, we cater the whole environment toward making our female guests feel sensual, comfortable, and at ease: if the ladies are having a good time, we’re all having a good time.
Most of our guests are a professional crowd — African-American and People of Color, mixed couples, and single females. We welcome those who aren’t intimidated by interacting with different ethnic groups and genuinely enjoy that connection. Our events aren’t the right fit for jealous partners or those looking for a specific “type” rather than a real one.
A Look Inside the Manor
A few more corners of the Manor — from our fireside lounge to our themed play spaces.
