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Welcome to Mixology at the Manor

Your Fantasies. Our Playground. Metro Detroit’s Premier Lifestyle Club

Our events are discreet, intimate, and centered on urban sensuality – quiet music, plenty of play space, and genuine communication. Each Mixology Masquerade centers around icebreaker games that get more playful (and the masks come on) as the night goes on. We host 4-8 exclusive private events a year for couples and single females (25-55 in appearance), held at private manors throughout metro Detroit, Cleveland, Toledo, and Ann Arbor. As featured in Upscale Magazine and on CNN.

Next Event

Whispers and Wine: Intimate Impact — September 26, 2026

An evening of passion, pleasure, and privacy celebrating Lady T’s birthday — soft and sensual upstairs, rough and dominating downstairs.

This Is What We Do

Couples, single females, and select gentlemen can explore our expansive grounds — 10 differently themed playrooms (like Naughty School and Dungeon), 3 well-stocked bathrooms, a ½-acre scenic outdoor patio, 3 group play rooms, and a gloryhole dark room. No cliques, no BS, no single-male hoards — no wasting your time.

We promote a diverse, kink- and LGBT-friendly atmosphere for all races. This event is for those who enjoy voyeurism, softswap, or fullswap play.

Prefer something smaller and more intimate? Don’t miss Whispers and Wine — our female-centric evening for 30 guests or less. See upcoming dates →

For those interested in attending our events, contact us! Our phone number is (734) 328-1739. We pre-screen all interested parties to ensure the safety of our members and brand. Not sure if swinging is for you? Check out our Process page.