Please read these rules before attending any Mixology at the Manor event. Violating any rule will result in immediate removal from the event.
- No Means No. Consent is non-negotiable. Respect it immediately and without question. No re-engagement, no stalking, no creepiness.
- Ask Before You Touch. A clear yes is required before any physical contact with anyone.
- Respect Our Single Females. Couples and single gentlemen: this is not a dating app. Do not request personal contact information from single females.
- No Smoking Indoors. Cigarettes and vapes are permitted on the patio only. No exceptions.
- Zero Tolerance. No illegal drugs, firearms, or weapons on the property.
- Respect the Play Areas. No food or drinks. No loud talking, cheering, or disruptive behavior. Don’t be disruptive because you’re uncomfortable with someone else’s fantasy — if it’s not your fantasy, move on.
- Practice Safe Sex. Always use condoms with non-partners. Never finish inside a non-partner, with or without a condom. No male may ever ask a woman to remove a condom.
- Couples Engage the Same. Both partners must participate at equal levels and leave the event together — don’t park your mate on the couch.
- Drink Responsibly. Excessive drinking will not be tolerated and is grounds for removal.
- Clean Up. Dispose of all used condoms in trashcans — not on floors, not on furniture.
- No Phones or Cameras Inside. Cell phones are permitted on the patio only. Privacy is absolute.
- Velvet Rope Rule. A rope means watch only — do not enter or ask to join. Rooms need 4+ people inside.
Reminders
- Change the Sheets. Change linens if they’re soiled. We don’t have fresh sheets for every session, so use your judgment.
- Icebreaker Consent. Not happy with an option? Suggest an alternative — the easiest consent option always wins.
- Eyes Wide Shut Rooms. 30-minute to 1-hour time limits are strictly enforced — perfect for private, kinky play. When time is up, it’s up.
- No Lingering. Single gentlemen: after 3am, if you’re not in a group conversation or playing, please exit. Don’t roam the halls.
- Overnight Policy. Too tipsy to drive? You’re welcome to sleep on any unoccupied twin bed or floor after 3am. Larger beds and bedrooms are reserved for hosts.
- Members Club Standards. Guests are expected to behave in a manner consistent with the standards of a private members club.
Full house guidelines are provided to members upon arrival.
For Overnight Guests
- Linens. Don’t remove extra sheets or comforters from doors or cabinets sealed with tape — those aren’t for guest use. Extra comforters are available, and a staff member can point you to extra sheets.
- Morning Duties. If you spend the night, you’re expected to help with cleanup. If playing in the morning, move to one of the designated rooms. If you slept in or played in a room: strip the linens into a clothes bag in the bathroom, place toys, condoms, and lube on a table or surface, and put condoms and wrappers in the trash (gloves provided).
Lanyard & Wristband Color Definitions
Purple Lanyard — Full Swap Couple
Open to playing with another couple, including swapping partners.
Orange Lanyard — Soft Swap Couple
Play with another couple includes female/female, oral only, or light touching. No full swap.
Pink Lanyard — Single Female — Pansexual (Plays with Men and Women)
Open to play with both men and women.
Yellow Lanyard — Single Female — Girl/Girl Only (Plays with Women Only)
Open to play with women only. Please respect this boundary without question.
Red Lanyard — Single Bull (Single Male)
Unattached male guest. Always confirm interest before engaging.
Green Lanyard — Hosts, Security & Staff
All hosts and staff wear green lanyards. Please approach a Green Lanyard if you have any issues or problems.
Yellow or Orange Wristband — Women Seeking Pansexual Play
Women who wish to signal to pansexual men that they are interested in MMF or pansexual play.
When in doubt — ask. Consent and discretion are the foundation of this community.
Sexy and Sized Gentlemen Club
We work with a select group we call the Sexy and Sized Gentlemen Club to invite single men to our events. Every gentleman is heavily vetted and background-checked, and invited at a ratio of no more than 1 single man for every 4 couples or single females.